The Story
Picture it.
First Friday.
A Tulsa hotel bar.
It's 6 o'clock on a first Friday. The drinks are cold, the crowd is fabulous, and somewhere across the room someone is laughing at something so good you have to walk over and introduce yourself.
That's 4H: Homo Hotel Happy Hour. Every first Friday of the month, we take over a different Tulsa hotel bar for two hours of cocktails, conversation, and community. No cover charge. No dress code. No drama. Just the finest, most fun, most fabulously diverse LGBTQIA+ crowd in Tulsa doing what we do best.
And while we're all having the time of our lives, we pass the hat for a local charity. Because being fabulous and being generous aren't mutually exclusive. Never have been.
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4H First Friday, May 2026
